It's no secret, at least not among men seeking some resolve among a brotherhood of likely victims..........men who hide are usually hurting, and men who hurt often hide. But herein lies the great irony of man.........we hide out in the open Yes, in some strange way, and for some even stranger reason, men consume their time in a "maze of visibility", hoping to camouflage themselves against the canvas appearance of normalcy, which in itself, is marred within the confines of certain limits (and limitations) that define the range of normal functioning and an expectedness consequence of being usual, regular, or common.